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Dear Ann Coulter of the Day: After Ann Coulter referred to President Obama as a retard in a tweet during Monday night’s presidential debate, Special Olympics athlete and global messenger John Franklin Stephens penned her this open letter:

Dear Ann Coulter, 

Come on Ms. Coulter, you aren’t dumb and you aren’t shallow. So why are you continually using a word like the R-word as an insult? 

I’m a 30 year old man with Down syndrome who has struggled with the public’s perception that an intellectual disability means that I am dumb and shallow. I am not either of those things, but I do process information more slowly than the rest of you. In fact it has taken me all day to figure out how to respond to your use of the R-word last night. 

I thought first of asking whether you meant to describe the President as someone who was bullied as a child by people like you, but rose above it to find a way to succeed in life as many of my fellow Special Olympians have. 

Then I wondered if you meant to describe him as someone who has to struggle to be thoughtful about everything he says, as everyone else races from one snarkey sound bite to the next. 

Finally, I wondered if you meant to degrade him as someone who is likely to receive bad health care, live in low grade housing with very little income and still manages to see life as a wonderful gift. 

Because, Ms. Coulter, that is who we are – and much, much more. 

After I saw your tweet, I realized you just wanted to belittle the President by linking him to people like me. You assumed that people would understand and accept that being linked to someone like me is an insult and you assumed you could get away with it and still appear on TV. 

I have to wonder if you considered other hateful words but recoiled from the backlash. 

Well, Ms. Coulter, you, and society, need to learn that being compared to people like me should be considered a badge of honor. 

No one overcomes more than we do and still loves life so much. 

Come join us someday at Special Olympics. See if you can walk away with your heart unchanged. 

A friend you haven’t made yet, John Franklin Stephens Global Messenger Special Olympics Virginia

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This man’s letter is proof in itself that people with intellectual disabilities like Down Syndrome and even disabilities on the Autism spectrum, aren’t dumb as the stereotype might have people think. Just because someone looks and acts dumb, doesn’t mean they are.

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This is a sweet success story (and finally something about a person who’s only affected a little by Aspergar’s), but I felt like they listed too many of his challenges. Even though the challenges they listed are actually very subtle, the repetition, the amount they used, and the failure to mention how subtle they actually are didn’t portray the kid’s challenges in that way. In fact, some of the challenges they listed are things that a normal kid at that age would do (not understanding the phrase “it’s raining cats and dogs” is fairly understandable for a 6 year old). However, It does show that even though these challenges may not seem so bad, they’re a big struggle to deal with, which I can relate to. Even though these kinds of little struggles may not seem like much, they greatly affect my well being and how I function though day to day life.

Most importantly, this article shows that those of us who struggle with Autism spectrum disorders don’t have to let it be a barrier in our path to success and can be successful even though we struggle with things neurotypical people don’t struggle with. This I greatly agree with.

The Problem With The Big Bang Theory…

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I’ve been meaning to post something about The Big Bang Theory for a while now but it’s taken me ‘till now to really understand what it is about the show that makes me uncomfortable. I’m not exactly a believer in the whole “only write about the things you like, don’t trash the things you don’t” trend which seems to be plaguing comments sections in negative articles lately, but I wanted to be able to really examine why I don’t like TBBT rather than just slagging it off. My main questions being - Why don’t I like this anymore? Why do I feel uncomfortable watching it? And why do I get so annoyed when I see people sing its praises online? The thing which really sparked this post was seeing a raft of comments on Facebook, below the last round of voting in Television Without Pity’s Tubey Awards, claiming The Big Bang Theory to be “the best comedy on TV”. This made me angry so instead of posting an impulsive comment calling out their bad taste which I’d probably regret later, I decided to really analyse why seeing comments like that made me so mad when previously, although I didn’t really love the show, I’d never considered myself as disliking The Big Bang Theory.

Hell, I even have season one on dvd, it’s sitting right between Battlestar Galactica and Bored To Death in my alphabetised collection.

And here, I think, is where my problem with The Big Bang Theory lies…

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Excellent argument is excellent. I like The Big Bang Theory, but this post gives a whole different, and true perspective on it. I especially agree with the point about Sheldon, which is mainly what this response is about.

I’d like to start off by saying that I have High Functioning Autism, which is very similar to Asperger’s. Recently while watching TBBT, I have felt embarrassed for Sheldon because of the way he acts, even though I can relate to him more than the other characters on the show.

Sheldon is portrayed as the annoyance, the jerk of the group, much like Cartman in South Park. Nobody understands him and yet the show seems to ridicule him. I personally would love to spend a day with Sheldon, but others might see him in the negative way that he’s portrayed. Also, just because the character portrays a lot of Aspie traits, doesn’t mean it’s an accurate representation. I remember seeing a movie called Adam a while back about a man with Aspergers who was struggling to live on his own and is eventually helped by a nice, yet neurotypical, woman. Even though the story had a nice ending, I hated how the main character was portrayed. He was portrayed as what I like to call a “worst case scenario.” He had many aspie traits and the actor portrayed them well, but the overall portrayal was too extreme. This is pretty much how Sheldon is portrayed in TBBT. And he’s ridiculed and hated for it. 

Even though Sheldon is very smart (an Aspie strength), he is looked upon negatively by the show. This is not how I want people to view Aspies. I wish TBBT writers would make Sheldon  struggle with learning how to act appropriately and show that he really is a nice guy even though he may not act like it.

Abed from Community is a much more accurate representation of Aspergers. Abed is also my favorite character on the show because, like with Sheldon, I can relate to him. Not only is Abed much less of a “worst case scenario,” but he is also loved even though he faces challenges brought on by his difference. In fact there are two main differences between Sheldon and Abed: Sheldon is an extreme case while Abed is not and Abed is loved while Sheldon is not. 

I tend to enjoy shows that have characters I can relate to. I would enjoy TBBT more if they made Sheldon (and all the characters) more relatable and wouldn’t ridicule them.

My experiences with NLD

Hi, my name is Thea. I was diagnosed with NLD when I was 16 or 17. I always loved reading, and was reading at a sixth grade level in the first grade. I was extremely eloquent. Other kids thought I was strange. Adults found me amusing. I have always excelled in art, reading, and writing, but struggle severely with math. My parents and teachers thought I wasn’t trying hard enough because I was clearly “intelligent” enough to do the work.  When I was in high school, a counselor called my parents and suggested I get tested for a learning disability because of the extreme difference between my math and writing scores.  My mom cried when she found out I had NLD, but I was incredibly relieved. It felt so good to know that it wasn’t just me “not trying hard enough”. I had always known I was “different” but couldn’t explain it. 

When I look at numbers too long, they lose their meaning and just turn into strange shapes. I can memorize formulas well but will often get an incorrect answer when using real numbers. I’m not extremely uncoordinated; I played piano and soccer when I was little and I think that helped. I often do things too fast; I speak fast, eat fast, and play music fast. I am extremely gullible and trip or bump into things often. I cannot always recognize sarcasm; which is ironic because I am extremely sarcastic myself.  I am extremely unorganized and cannot dance to save my life. I am horrible with spatial relations and estimating quantities.  I also have severe anxiety and depression, which has gotten exponentially better over the past few years. I think the things that have helped me the most are:

  • Remember to slow down and breathe!
  • Always keeping a notepad with me to write things down
  • Pulling together any clothes, books, items, etc. the night before going to school/work so I don’t have to think about it the next day
  • Making lists to prioritize things
  • Trying to spend at least fifteen minutes a day organizing my room
  • Remembering to stop and think in conversations before just saying what I feel

I still get teased for forgetting/losing things, spacing stuff out, being gullible, and being messy. But I have been in a great relationship for over a year and am very happy with my life. I know some incredible people who love me despite my flaws. If anyone ever wants to talk about NLD, feel free to message me!

Love, Thea

A Christian Testimony, Asperger’s Style!

This is from my friend Dave Chew:

Although born and raised in a Christian home, I was diagnosed Asperger’s Syndrome (High Functioning Autism) in Elementary School. I not only struggled with getting along with people, I also struggled with my Faith. because of that my faith started to fade. I was pretty much in a unrealistic world in my noggin, that is until I was placed in a center and realized that I needed to be in reality and fast. So I went back to regular High School, and when Senior year came about I recommitted my life to Christ.

I’m not sure how I overcame my difference, but I know I did.

I don’t know any other people who have Asperger’s and are Christians, but all I can say is to stay strong in your faith and persevere. I know I was able to persevere and although I still need improvement with school, I’m getting there.

Two people actually inspire me, one of them is Dr. Temple Grandin and another is Joni Erickson Tada. 

Most of us know about Dr. Grandin, but not all of us know Joni.

To learn more about her, go to joniandfriends.org

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